How do you say delovely...

I recently started dating again. Much to my surprise, I'm really bad at it. Either I take it way too fast, or way too slow. I can't seem to find a middle ground. In most cases, I find myself backing away for guys because I don't want to get attached to them or because I'm not looking for something serious right now.

It's been so long since I remember knowing that someone is "right" for me. I've forgotten what that feels like. And I know that in some cases, the thrill of getting to know someone can be confused for "extreme like". Is that even an emotion?

Anyway, my point is, how are you supposed to know? How do you know if you've found someone that you can start a relationship with?

xoxo